I've always been cut and dry about my feelings about married people having affairs. If infidelity is a major violation of a couples' marital rules, then cheating is wrong and the blame is placed solely on the cheater. Notice I said "if infidelity is a violation". Although many people take a wedding vow before God, friends, and family to be true and faithful to their spouse, life may sometimes causes a couple to alter that promise...create an "arrangement" if you will. Whether agreed to verbally or by implicit action, the new infidelity rule can be anything or everything from (a)being discreet and/or (b)coming home every night and/or (c) not bringing a disease to your spouse and/or (d) avoiding pregnancy.
That's not to say that either or both parties are ecstatic and content, it just that they've decided that this situation currently works best for them. Ladies, for me a single woman sleeping with a married man is very wrong a PERSONAL level. I also feel that a woman staying with a man who repeatedly cheats on her is wrong on a PERSONAL level. (Please feel free to substitute the opposite sex in the above statements).
Enter the Real Housewives of Atlanta and the Kim/Big Poppa drama...
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When trying to decide which path when dealing with matters of the heart, be sure to avoids choices that will lead to regret or resentment.
